shescomingyourway

Well they say..”love is sweeter the second time around”..it’s only when u realize how worth your partner is. So, was it like forgetting the past issues and just make up together like nothing had happened? Be it bitter or not as long as you’re both in love together, then you’ll say you’re both back in track?

Surely it’s a pleasant surprise for you both to bring on that fire again. And yes, it takes heroic efforts to get it back AGAIN. I had once asked a friend of mine about her issues with his boyfriend before. How she ditch him lika a s*** a****** coz of the stupid things he keep on doing and suddenly after a while being back together like blaaaaahhhgg…”Yes, we’re ON again!”. How was that? Are you guys crazy? I was like “hey, you shut up, fix your life, leave him away, he’s not meant for you”. I’m a blacksheep of the relationship, isn’t it? haha..such a bad friend.

What just bothered me is the idea of how that person thrown you away like a trash and you, yes you just forget it all. That’s it? I was like having those hatred to boys out there. How’d they’d scroll your mind after all.

………….Well…that was long time ago.

Until I had same experience of that “Love is sweeter the second time around”. 🙂

At first I really don’t think of working out the relationship again after we had this messy ending. Some personal issues, you know. So i was like already in the stage of MOVING ON. He on the other hand still pursuing me to bring back “US” again. For me it was stupid idea. How come things would work out after all the mess?? How?

Such a bitter ending, right? So it’s been a couple of months since, I started to entertain other guys. He was still there on the drama but what i said..it’s past. Past we can’t foresee in the future. Until one day..I realized how selfish I am not to give him that chance. Chance for some reason he deserve i guess.

So we were like doing the first base again…getting to know each other AGAIN. Feeling that moments …remembering the past, such lovely. 🙂

With the idea of loving that person more like you love him before is such a great provenance  to work out the last lost relationship. It’s also disclosing past issues which is what makes these “US again” relationship more meaningful. You get to apologize for the mess, whatever it is and u get to have that forgiveness you most wanted. You learned i guess. So it was like not doing what your partner hates you to do so  and filling in the things you failed to do so.

Still, it’s a case to case basis. But as long as the love was still there, go for it. Be it you or him who made mistakes, never fail to give that person “The CHANCE”. Yes, we are living with billions of people around us but it takes only ONE PERSON to complete your world. Live life like it’s your last. LOVE.LOVE.LOVE 🙂

Try watching the link below. “The Past” by Jed Madela

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxR2DRqUsBA